Echo, by Alexandre Cabanel, 1974. In Greek mythology, Echo was a nymph who fell in love with Narcissus, but she was cursed by Juno, and was only allowed to repeat back what was said to her. Narcissus died having wasted away looking at himself and Echo followed him shortly thereafter.

Complex Trauma & Narcissistic Abuse

Recovery Resources

Practitioners and Researchers

Dr. Ramani

Sheri Heller, LCSW

Shahida Arabi

Melanie Tonia Evans

Julie L. Hall

Tracey A. Malone

Adrianna Bucci

Dr. Karyl McBride

 

Books

Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself

Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving by Pete Walker

People of the Lie: The Hope for Healing Human Evil by M. Scott Peck

POWER: Surviving and Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse: A Collection of Essays on Malignant Narcissism and Recovery from Emotional Abuse by Shahida Arabi 

The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life by Dr. Robin Stern

You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse: The #1 System for Recovering from Toxic Relationships by Melanie Tonia Evans

The Narcissistic Family: Diagnosis and Treatment by Stephanie Donaldson-Pressman and Robert M. Pressman 

The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists: Coping with the One-Way Relationship in Work, Love, and Family by Eleanor D. Payson, LMSW

Was It Even Abuse? Restoring Clarity after Covert Abuse by Rose Bynum

The Pain We Carry: Healing from Complex PTSD for People of Color by Natalie Y. Gutierrez and Dina Nayeri

  

Websites

CPTSD Foundation

Out of the Fog

Out of the Storm

Narcissist Abuse Support

Narcissist Family Files

Complex Trauma Resources

Complex Trauma Trainig & Treatment Network

Healing and CPTSD

 

Podcasts

Trauma Therapist Podcast

Complex Trauma Recovery

Navigating Narcissism Podcast

We Can Do Hard Things

Narcissist Apocalypse Podcast  

 

Treatment

In a perfect world there would be actual recovery centers for survivors, but we are a-ways away from that vision. For now, more options are emerging.

Narcissistic Abuse Referral Network (USA)

Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program

Complex Trauma Treatment for Adults

 

Complementary Modalities

EMDR

Somatic Work e.g., Somatic Experiencing

Family Constellation Work

Traditional Chinese Medicine

Soul Retrieval

Psychedelic-assisted therapy

Psychotherapy*

Craniosacral therapy

Myofascial release therapy

Flower essence therapy

 

* Use care when selecting a practitioner. Only work with mental health professionals who have experience with personality disorders. Most professionals do not adequately understand the nature of complex trauma, personality disorders, or recovering from narcissistic abuse.

 

Community Groups

National Domestic Violence Hotline

988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline  

Codependents Anonymous

Narcissism Survivor Meetup

Raised by Narcissists reddit

Narcissistic parents reddit

Narcissistic spouses reddit

True Narcissistic abuse reddit